Life Stinks
Saturday, July 24th, 2010|
IMDB rating: 5.00 Plot: A rich businessman makes a bet he can survive on the streets of a rough Los Angeles neighborhood for 30 days completely penniless. During his stay he discovers another side of life and falls in love with with a homeless woman. |
Actors: Barty Billy,Tambor Jeffrey,Ensign Michael,Pankin Stuart,Morris Howard,De Luca Rudy,Wilson Teddy,Faison Matthew,Thompson Brian,O’Connor Raymond,Caridi Carmine,Shore Sammy,Roman Frank,Comedy,
my dad will only let me shower 2 days in a week. please help me. 
i cant stop crying.?
okay well we have two showers in our house. one in the masters and one in a guest shower. the one that i use the guest one has been weird lately. there is like hot water for only 10 minutes. the master shower always has hot water. i used to showers in the masters and i would take about 20 minutes the most. yesterday i took a shower in the guest bathroom and there was only enough hot water to wash and condition my hair with. i complained and asked if i could use the masters he said no. i have to use the cold water till im done. i spent 45 minutes in there. turning it on and off. hoping there would be hot water. there was none. i showered in freezing water. and its 45 degrees outside. i was cold. now my head and entire body hurts. anyways.. when i get out the shower and get dressed he said from today you will only shower 2 times a week. it was sunday … so i cant shower mondays or tuesdays. i can shower wednesdays not thursdays fridays or saturdays. and again on sundays. i couldnt stop crying. how can a teenage girl only shower 2 times a week. i mean i get periods. i workout in gym and at home. im going to sweat and stink. i have given up gym at school. and wont dress out wich means i get a failing grade. i wont workout at home wich means i wont lose weight & ill gain a lot more back. i dont know what to do. this just isnt fair. when i take a shower in the masters bathroom it has hot water and the most i take is 20 minutes. and he always says i always take 1 hour 30 min. in the shower. i dont. i mean i have to wash and get clean. my mom isnt doing anything about it either. it hurts so much. what am i supposed to do?
i dont wanna go to the social workers. its gong to tear my family apart. i have two little sisters. i dont want anything happening to them. my dad does abuse us though. me mostly. it seems like lately he has been finding the smallest things to colmpain about on me. idk what to do. i dont think anyone loves me. i just wish i was never born… i really do. i dont have any relatives in the u.s who can help out either…..
i just hate my life.
another thing. he wont listen to me. at all. and i cant sneak a shower because he is always home. im just so lost and depressed right now.
just tell him
awommack | Feb 08, 2010
Promise to take 10 minute showers? (maybe if you’re really quick and waste no time)
That seems harshly irrational, though, his decision! There are always school showers, but that may be not an option if you have an issue with the privacy.
Excited | Feb 08, 2010
I been through the same thing except i was only allowed to shower once a week . it was me, my sis, and my brother.. but it was only me and my sis that was being abused we had to steal for food and i am sorry to say its only going to get worse and yea you don’t want to go to DHHR but its not going to get better I wish and prayed for 6 years and it didnt til finally I got tooken away and to be honest its hard to trust DHHR in a way as well just because they go to the parents and it all gets worse til finally after so many pleas they believe so I am not sure as to tell you what to do from me being in that sitauation al you can mainly do is pray i hoped this has helped you a lil bit
Tiffany | Feb 08, 2010
I know you don’t want to tear your family apart but you can’t live like that.Once your sisters get older he’ll be doing the same things to them too. It most likely going to get worse. Your mom seems to be the Type that takes her lover’s side before her children’s.
You might not want to go to social workers but it’s the best choice. You should also tell your school counselor.Who knows you may be sent to stay with your relatives in a different country. Your father is abusive. YOU CAN’T LIVE LIKE THAT. It’s not good for you or your sisters. You’re the oldest you should do what you must to protect them and you.
Once you’re 18 or older and have a stable household you may be able to have your sisters to come live with you it you all split up.
Things will only get worse from here so you should stop it now.
There is the choice you can go stay with friends.IF a social worker AND your friend’s parents agree to it.
I know it hurts but once you do something about it, the pain will lessen. Don’t stay living with an abusive parent.
Sanity | Feb 08, 2010
My old school had showers (but we never got to use them) I’m MORE THAN SURE that if your school has them you can privately tell your gym teacher what the problem is and ask if you can start taking showers. Don’t be embarrassed. It isn’t your fault.
This is awful. I’m so sorry. If you have any friends, you could talk to them and their parents and explain to them what is going on. Someone will let you take showers until your father stops this nonsense.
Sweetie if you ever want to talk, I’m here for you.
Sheak | Feb 08, 2010
Sounds like the guest bathroom has a separate hot water tank and one of the elements are burned out.Turn the power and water off to it and replace the element, you’ll need to drain the tank first.It is usually the top element.
Ford_Craney | Feb 08, 2010
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